Happy Anti-versary
Cats: travels|It was sixteen years ago today that I stood barefoot on a beach in Fiji and tied the knot, got hitched, fused, welded together, or whatever your romantic metaphor for getting married.
It was a spontaneous thing, growing out of a beach conversation that went something like this:
I wouldn’t mind getting married.
Me neither.
They’d sure be surprised at home.
OK, let’s do it tomorrow before we change our minds.
My dress was bunched up in a backpack, a red-and-white Bali batik purchased a couple of weeks before in Australia for $15 AUS. I hung it up for the day and most of the wrinkles fell out.
The deed was done by a Methodist minister wearing a sulu with a congregation that consisted of the sulu-wearing bar staff/band from the hotel. They were bored out of their heads.
Not sure what 16 signifies, but apparently the recommended gift is silver holloware, whatever that is.
My present?
Well, after having secretly switched the text on my Blackberry to Magyar, the language spoken by Hungarians, and then watching me panic as I tried to navigate my way through menus with funny words with squiggles, he graciously offered to switch it back to English.
You know, as an anniversary present.
Sweet, huh?

March 31st, 2008 at 7:47 pm
Awww. Hub & I will celebrate #16 in September. When we originally picked out my teeny tiny diamond at Consumer’s Distributing (we were so broke) I said he could get me a bigger one for our 10th. Th 10th came and went with no big diamond in site (we still didn’t have much “extra” money). Now there are so many other things I would rather spend money on than a hunk of mineral. It is 20 years since we started “dating” although I don’t know if we ever officially went on a date. He has always been my IT guy & I hope he will fix some technology problem for me on our anti-versary.
March 31st, 2008 at 8:08 pm
I didn’t know you were married! Ah-ha!!! You keep your filthy, married paws off of my Aussie meat!
Oh yeah, and Happy anniversary.
March 31st, 2008 at 8:45 pm
HnP, would your guy be my IT guy?
BeckEye, I didn’t mention the name or the nationality of the guy I married, did I? But it was an Aussie dress I wore, and there was travel in that country right before the weddin’ in Fiji.
Perhaps, the wife in the cut-to-wife shots is just a hire for Idol ratings. Mmmmm?
Thank you both, the day is as memorable as any 16 anniversary would be…
March 31st, 2008 at 10:36 pm
How sweet! As my mother in law would say “Happy University!”
We had a similar conversation: “so, do you think we should get married or something?”, “yeah, sure, why not.” That was almost 20 years ago.
April 1st, 2008 at 9:50 am
So, how’d that work when you returned home? Do foreign marraiges “count” — or, did you have to get married again at home? There must be some paperwork involved…?
April 1st, 2008 at 10:23 am
BB, love the mother-in-law malapropisms.
Patrick, funny you should say. It would have been all legal except the one of the witnesses was illiterate and signed his name X. The certificate wasn’t properly notarized making the whole thing questionable. We haven’t done the deed again.
April 1st, 2008 at 11:10 am
Kudos to ‘he who can’t be named’ for remembering the anniversary. I figure if I ever get married I’ll try to piggyback on my birthday, Christmas, or some other ‘difficult to forget’ date.
April 1st, 2008 at 4:06 pm
What a feller. You got a good one there, miss. Happy ANTIVERSARY!
April 1st, 2008 at 5:30 pm
-a férj van egy csodálatos ember. Önnek kellene kegy neki -val -a nő áldások gyakran
April 1st, 2008 at 6:33 pm
If the wife IS a plant, I’m on top of Michael by the end of this evening.
April 1st, 2008 at 7:02 pm
Happy Magyar anniversary GT. Ten years is darn good for a spur of the moment decision, may you have 60 more in the font of your choice.
April 1st, 2008 at 7:30 pm
Dick, he remembers with prompts and I too remember with prompts.
Falwless, welcome to GT. Yes, quite a feller indeed. Did I win the caption contest?
Tagbagger, I wish I knew the words for ‘eff off in Magyar. I’m sure your sentiments would be deserving. Translation please.
BeckEye, but I’ll be under him!
Chance, thanks. I have a feeling this is the beginning of many more anniversary language jokes to come. Next year Mandarin.
April 2nd, 2008 at 12:10 am
I didn’t know you were an “orgy girl.”
April 2nd, 2008 at 6:25 am
Not if I can help it, Becks, but if it has to be Aussie sandwiches than so be it.
BTW, he was fabby last night. On the Idol show, I mean.
April 2nd, 2008 at 11:44 am
I love this story. You lead an enviable life, Gifted.
April 2nd, 2008 at 10:18 pm
I couldn’t pick a better gal for my boyfriend!
Congratulations, darling. We’ll celebrate properly this summer (I’m still planning to come out there).
April 3rd, 2008 at 10:12 am
Beth, thank you. I am very lucky, well, most of the time
Espanya, so glad you approve. Must get talking about our drinking plans for this summer.
April 4th, 2008 at 1:16 pm
“Vidám évforduló!”
Hopeful that says “Happy Anniversary” in Hungarian.
April 5th, 2008 at 9:19 am
Sixteen years is a real accomplishment. I am proud!!
April 5th, 2008 at 5:56 pm
WP thank you, (in hungarian)
Jacy, thank you. It is.