Life happens; and then it doesn’t

I’m at the cottage.

WEather’s great - hot and sunny.

The kids are having fun, swimming, tubing, hanging out.

The beach is stunning this year, but the ocean’s still a little nippy.

The jelly fish have arrived. And the mosquitoes! They love me.

We’re getting the blinds up on the windows and getting TV set up for the Olympics this summer.

I’m enjoying sh*t out of this moment because tomorrow I’m going to the funeral of someone who would dearly love to be at the cottage on the beach with her kids right now.

She was 44, smart, dynamic, and always the life of the par-tay. She leaves twin girls aged 14 and their brother, 15. And a big family of brothers, sisters, parents and friends.

I’m so lucky to be here right now. My kids are lucky to be here.

And you are lucky to be there too.

9 Responses to “Life happens; and then it doesn’t”


  1. 1 Dick

    The title pretty much sums it up for me, but it doesn’t change the fact that it hits home when it’s someone you knew or cared about.

    I doubt it is much consolation, but I find looking at the national statistics helps to put things into perspective for me.

    http://www.cancer.ca/ccs/internet/standard/0,2283,3172_14423__langId-en,00.html

  2. 2 barbara

    I’m really sorry for your loss. She sounds like she was an incredible woman. And so young.

  3. 3 Bubs

    I thank God every day that I’m on this earth. I don’t take it for granted.

    I’m sorry for the loss of your friend.

  4. 4 YAM

    So very sorry to hear of the loss of your very dynamic friend. Just another reminder to live each day to the fullest and not to sweat the small stuff.

  5. 5 Tanya Espanya

    Aw, honey, I’m sorry about your friend. Every day we’re alive is amazing.

    I cannot wait to be there, slobbering all over you, my boyfriend and my new children.

    Hey, are we there when the Olympics are on? Cool. I like to see the guys in their little bathing suits…

    I send you smothery hugs and slobbery kisses.

  6. 6 giftedtypist

    Thanks all for your comments. Unspeakably sad. That’s all

  7. 7 Write Procrastinator

    I’m sorry for your loss.

  8. 8 Tonardo

    My 71 year-old dad allways says “remeber, this is not a rehersal for the real thing” … too right

  9. 9 BeckEye

    Sorry, I’ve been away. Sorry to hear about your friend.

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